Frequently asked questions

Arranging a funeral

What does H Parsons Funeral Directors do?

H Parsons helps families arrange funerals, plan ahead and understand their options, with funeral homes across the Illawarra and Shoalhaven.

How do I arrange a funeral?

You can arrange a funeral by calling H Parsons, meeting with a funeral director, starting arrangements online through Funeral Arranger, or submitting an enquiry online.

How much do funerals cost?

Funeral costs vary depending on whether you choose cremation or burial and the type of service you arrange. H Parsons funerals typically range from $6,100 to $18,000 or more, with cemetery burial or crypt costs additional.

Are there funeral directors near me?

Yes. H Parsons has funeral homes across the Illawarra and Shoalhaven, including locations from Wollongong to Nowra.

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Can I plan a funeral in advance?

Yes. You can plan your funeral in advance by recording your wishes, choosing a prepaid funeral or establishing a funeral bond.

What to do when someone dies

What do I do when someone dies at home in NSW?

What you need to do depends on whether the death was expected. For an expected death at home, contact the person’s doctor or healthcare team. For an unexpected death, call 000.

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What do I do when someone dies in hospital?

When someone dies in hospital, hospital staff will manage the immediate steps and explain what happens next. You can then contact your chosen funeral director to arrange their care.

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Who do I call first when someone dies?

Who you call first depends on where and how the person died. For an unexpected death, call 000. For an expected death at home, contact their doctor or healthcare team. In a hospital or aged care facility, staff will guide you.

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How soon does a funeral need to be arranged after someone dies in Australia?

A funeral does not usually need to be arranged immediately. Some steps are time sensitive, but most funeral decisions can be made over several days.

What information do I need to arrange a funeral?

You’ll need basic details about the person who has died and any known wishes for their funeral, burial or cremation. Your funeral director will guide you through anything else required.

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Can I arrange a funeral outside business hours?

Yes. H Parsons is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. Online funeral arrangements can also be started at any time.

Costs & pricing

How much does a funeral cost in Australia?

Funeral costs vary depending on the type of funeral and the choices you make. H Parsons funerals typically range from $6,100 to $18,000 or more, with cemetery burial or crypt costs additional.

If you are choosing a burial or crypt, the cost of purchasing and preparing the burial plot or crypt is separate and paid directly to the cemetery.

A no service, no attendance cremation is often the lowest cost option. Some families choose this and hold a separate memorial service afterwards, with memorials typically starting from $1,400.

As part of arranging a funeral with a funeral director, we explain what is essential and what is optional. This allows you to make informed decisions and create a personalised funeral service that reflects your preferences and budget.

How much does cremation cost compared to burial in NSW?

Cremation is generally less expensive than burial. H Parsons cremation funerals typically range from $6,000 to $9,000, while burial funerals typically range from $8,300 to $12,000, excluding the burial plot.

Centrelink does not provide a specific payment covering the full cost of a funeral. Some eligible people may receive bereavement payments or other support following a death. See Services NSW for full details.

What is a destitute funeral and who qualifies in NSW?

A destitute funeral is a basic funeral arranged for someone who has no funds or estate to pay for their funeral and no family or friends able to cover the cost. Eligibility is assessed by the relevant NSW authority.

Are there payment plans available for funerals?

There are several ways funeral costs may be managed, including estate funds, eligible superannuation or insurance benefits, prepaid funerals and funeral bonds. Available options depend on individual circumstances.In some cases, this may include:

  • Using funds from the estate
  • Accessing superannuation or insurance benefits
  • Prepaid funerals or funeral bonds arranged in advance

Prepaid funeral arrangements, for example, allow costs to be paid in advance or over time, helping reduce the financial pressure on family members. If you are concerned about cost, the most practical step is to discuss your situation early. This allows us to explain options clearly and help you choose an approach that fits your circumstances.

How can I get a quote?

You can request a funeral quote by calling H Parsons, arranging online through Funeral Arranger, or submitting an enquiry through the website.

Cremation vs burial

What is the difference between cremation and burial?

Burial places the person who has died in a grave or burial site, while cremation returns their ashes to the family. Both can include a personalised funeral or memorial service.

How long does cremation take?

The cremation itself generally takes around two to three hours. Additional time is required to prepare the ashes before they are returned to the family.

How is a body prepared for cremation?

Before cremation, the person is identified and cared for according to legal and safety requirements. Preparation can also include dressing and presentation according to the family’s wishes.

Where can you scatter ashes legally in NSW?

Ashes can generally be scattered on private property with the owner’s permission and in many public places where local rules allow it. Always check with the relevant council, landowner or authority before scattering ashes.

Pre-planning

What is a pre planned funeral?

A pre-planned funeral records your funeral wishes in advance without requiring you to pay for the funeral.

Who is a pre planned funeral for?

Anyone can pre-plan their funeral. It can help ensure your wishes are known and make future decisions easier for your family.

Is there any cost to pre planning?

No. Recording your funeral wishes with H Parsons does not require an upfront payment.

Can I change my pre planned funeral arrangements?

Yes. Your pre-planned funeral wishes can be updated if your preferences or circumstances change.

What should I include when planning my own funeral in advance?

You can record preferences including burial or cremation, the type and location of the service, music, readings, flowers and other personal details. For a more detailed guide, you can complete our My Wishes booklet or speak with our team by arranging a pre‑planning appointment with our specialist.

What is a prepaid funeral plan and how does it work?

A prepaid funeral allows you to plan your funeral and make financial provision for agreed funeral services in advance. Learn more here

What is the PrepaidPlus Funeral Plan?

The PrepaidPlus Funeral Plan allows you to plan and pay for your funeral in advance, either upfront or by instalments, and lock in today’s prices for the funeral you select. Learn more here

What is a funeral bond and how does it work in Australia?

A funeral bond allows you to set money aside for future funeral expenses while retaining flexibility over how the funds are ultimately used.

Can a funeral bond be started with a smaller amount?

Yes. A funeral bond can be opened with an initial investment from $500, with the option to make additional contributions over time.

What is the difference between a prepaid funeral and a funeral bond?

A prepaid funeral provides for agreed funeral arrangements in advance, while a funeral bond sets money aside for future funeral expenses with greater flexibility over how the funds are used.  Learn more here

Eligible prepaid funeral plans and funeral bonds may be exempt from Centrelink assets testing, subject to current rules and limits. Individual circumstances vary, so independent financial advice should be considered. Learn more here

What is funeral insurance and how is it different to a pre‑paid funeral?

Funeral insurance involves ongoing premiums and pays a set benefit after death. A prepaid funeral allows agreed funeral services to be arranged and paid for in advance. Learn more here

What happens at a pre‑planning meeting?

A pre-planning meeting lets you discuss your funeral wishes, explore your options and understand costs with guidance from a funeral professional. Learn more about how this works here

What if I am planning for someone who is expected to pass very soon?

If a death is expected, funeral arrangements can be discussed in advance, giving you time to understand what can be decided now and what can wait. Learn more about arranging a funeral

Contacting us & appointments

Can I contact you outside business hours?

Yes. H Parsons Funeral Directors is available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week for immediate support.

Do I need an appointment to speak with someone?

No. You can call H Parsons at any time. If you would like to meet a funeral director in person, an appointment can be arranged.

Which number should I call?

Call the Illawarra team on (02) 4228 9622 or the Shoalhaven team on (02) 4423 2333. If you are unsure which team you need, H Parsons can direct you.

Can I contact you just to plan ahead?

Yes. You can contact H Parsons to discuss funeral pre-planning, prepaid funerals or your wishes without needing to arrange a funeral now.

What is your email address?

You can email H Parsons at info@hparsons.com.au.

Locations & visiting a chapel

Are there funeral homes near me?

Yes. H Parsons operates funeral homes and chapels across Wollongong, the Illawarra and Shoalhaven. View all of our locations.

Can I choose which funeral home to use?

Yes. You can choose the H Parsons location that best suits your family, the funeral service and where you live.

Do all locations offer the same services?

All H Parsons locations provide access to experienced funeral directors and core funeral services, although chapel facilities and other services vary by location.

Can I visit a chapel before making arrangements?

Yes. You can contact your nearest H Parsons funeral home to discuss your options or arrange a chapel visit.

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